été de l'amour (Summer of Love) ~

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Ensemble ~

HERMONY / KYU / BodyShape (Slightly Modded)
HERMONY / SKIN / KYU / ST2,  EyebrowShape, EYEBROWCUT / TRIPLE CUT / LEFT ST2, Stubble - Darker (You have to see this shape in person. It's really one of the best male BODY shapes I have EVER seen in SL. It's hard to tell with all these clothes on, so I took a pic in just undies! (see below,) lol AND I will be featuring it again & again. Although I absolutely LOVE this face too, I think I still might be in love with my [ma ko pa] elian femboy face, (blogged here, here & here,) this new body shape is really SO NICE, so I will be featuring this shape a LOT more to come - stay tuned for that. 
{S0NG} :: Hope~ Hazel Eye
Blair's Gadget Factory Slink Hands + Feet + Eyelashes Combo MP 
DeeTaleZ Prim Teeth gap
L.Fauna Dimples  Freckles [Tan]
ILLMATIC :: Savee Hair & High Temp Fade - Chocolate (The Men's Dept)
Cute Poison - Ova Piercing Part 2 (Part 2 of 2 parts)
Noodles - Shark Bite Earrings Pink L & R (Past Fifty Linden Friday) So Cute, unisex!
La Malvada Mujer - Le petite origami (Group Gift)
(Milk Motion) word necklace - amour - gold (Gacha - Past Arcade) 
. Sweet Thing. Peace & Love Frames - Psychedelics (Summer of Love Fair Exclusive! June 27th - July 11th)
...Scars... Turtleneck hoodie M / [Brown] (The Men's Dept.) 
Slink Male Hands (AvEnhance) L & R - Relax
=^.^=MS=^.^= (Myrai Style) {Horned Bangles}
-Pixicat- EyeBag Clutch (Green) (Gacha)
.:Buttery Toast:. Yara's Ring - Black (HUD Change inner wings)
Cute Poison - Glitter Nails Matte Tips HUD
...Scars...Shirring sarrouel pants [Black] (The Men's Dept)
Slink Male Feet (AvEnhance) S - Flat
{Sleepy Eddy} Semi Brogue Shoes (Maroon) (Gacha - Past Arcade) (These don't require SLinks, I just wore mine & resized the shoe to fit them because I was running out of alpha layers due to other items I was wearing & I have the Blair's three-in-one alpha for eyelashes, hand & foot slinks I can wear so it helps.)

! ellemeno ! undies - mens - rainbows (Gacha)

Poses ~ 

Natural
Ploom

Thoughts & Music ~ 

It was really fun to do a male look again - I hope people like it & I do hope more men feel free to express themselves with fashion, hair & nails as a lot of women are able to. I like the idea of breaking down gender stereotypes. I feel like people should wear what they like & express themselves with color & frivolity if they so desire, without feeling afraid to be labeled.

I called this post été de l'amour, & it SHOULD mean Summer of Love in French if google translate is serving me right. I took cues from the "amour" in the necklace, the psychedelic themed peace glasses, & the overall, free-wheeling vibe of the look. 

When I think of "Summer of Love" of course I think of the famous 1967 Haight-Ashbury era of hippie-free-love, music & revolution based around San Francisco, California, AND I also, think of this lovely tune by the B-52's from the 80's. Yes, the B-52's again - I do love them. Here they are with Summer of Love, (featuring a lovely, clear remix by the classic Shep Pettibone,) ~ Enjoy! 

Another Word for Disappointed ~

::Modish:: - Bonnie Sunkiss dk Skin - Boho Fair
The Sugar Garden - Wetlook Rainbow Puddle Eyes (Lucky Board)
Magika - [Blood][S] Faint Hair - Halloween Group Gift

[ni.ju] - Visual Edge A01 full  Eyeliner (Under)
::Modish:: - Catwoman Eyemakeup 2 Eyeliner (Over)

Pink Acid - Clear Lip Gloss - MP 10L (A Must Have!)
DeeTaleZ - Prim Teeth gap upper & lower
Violent Seduction - Imp Collar
RYCA- Personalized Silver [F] / for four letters

Hand on My Heart

It's been a while since I've made a Second Life fashion post & there are a lot of reasons why. I haven't been on SL lately because I had a major falling out with a couple of my SL "friends" & I got a bit disillusioned since this is not the first time I've had a falling out with some people I thought were my internet "friends." I had to take a big step back & examine myself & my role in the events & the people I tend to gravitate toward & the drama I attract & participate in & produce, as well. It's not always just "everyone else" - it's also me, I have to take responsibility.  All of this "drama" was going on in the midst of some Real Life heath crisis I won't get into detail about now, but as some who REALLY me know, I am dealing with my own chronic illness, & other members of my immediate family have also unfortunately had to deal with their own types of sudden onset illnesses. I am in the role of caretaker for some of them, so there are a lot of stresses. I don't get into details as to preserve my loved one's privacy but let's just say I have been extremely consumed with grief & worry lately & it's very hard.

Even thought I tend to talk & share a LOT, I am actually a pretty private person & I don't tell many people ALL the details because everyone doesn't need to know everything. Everyone has their own major troubles they deal with every day. Anyone who knows what I'm talking about will know. If you don't know, then consider yourself lucky. So yeah, I needed a breather to asses all this "drama" because it really did hurt me & I needed to re-evaluate if I even wanted to continue to participate in the virtual world of Second Life, which suddenly seemed silly & like such a waste of time & money in the grande scheme of things when there are life & death matters on the table. My poor little hurt feelings & the so-called "friends" who were mean & just "didn't understand me" seemed like a waste of my emotion & honestly I don't feel like I have that many emotions left to spare.

Obviously, after about a month & a half of a break, I tentatively got back on SL, but it's a whole new experience now. I don't spend NEARLY as much time as I used to. I used it as a total escape from my life before, but now my life, as complicated as it is, doesn't need escaping as much for some reason. Just like in Real life  situations - maybe I realized that what I was escaping TO wasn't giving me the relief I was expecting anyway? I think I have a better perspective. I kept looking for deeper connections with people & failing. I'm not saying I hate humanity, but I think I am just coming to terms with reality better. I feel profoundly changed by the pain & I think it might be a positive thing. 

Yesterday, while sitting, cuddling with Nico, my new rescued kitten, on my patio in the warm Summer afternoon, listening to the mellow sounds of community radio, I actually wept because I was so happy. In spite of everything that has happened & everything going on I was happier than I had been in longer than I could remember. Hand on my heart.

Sorry no SLurls this time... I'm so lazy tonight! (Most of these stores are already Slurled in my blog on other posts, in my groups or profile picks OR just use search inworld!)

Wasabi Pills ~  Alice Non-Rigged Mesh Hair Ash
Mother Goose's ~ Ai Skin (Lucky Board)
L.Fauna ~ Dimples Freckles [Pale]
MADesigns ~ Eyes_Nature Furry Hills
ni.ju ~ Eyeliner Visual Edge
DeeTaleZ ~ Teeth
Jetcity Fashions ~ Blackpearls Necklace V2 
COCO ~ Handprint Tee - Group Gift
SAKIDE  ~ Slide 'em off panties Sequin
Acid & Mala ~ My Fav Bracelet Black Pearls
Riddle ~ I Heart You Tights Sheer Red
Kick/PuncutE ~ Apple Ring 
Candy Nail ~ #P045 Swallowtail Nails
Amplify ~ Bow Leg Tats
Dilly Dolls ~ Bastian Boots